On this season of And Simply Like That…, Harry Goldenblatt could not assist however surprise if his well being had taken a flip. On the June 26 episode of the present, Charlotte’s affable husband goes from wetting his pants in a nightclub to becoming a member of a membership he’d quite not be a part of—despite the fact that, as he factors out, it additionally contains Robert De Niro, Warren Buffett, and Nelson Mandela.
Throughout a night stroll previous the Guggenheim Museum, Harry tells Charlotte there’s a purpose he requested her to go for a stroll. “To get away from the children? Me too,” she quips. Not precisely: Due to a pair unusual signs he’d been experiencing, Harry determined to go to the physician for a check-up. “What have you learnt? I received prostate most cancers,” he tells his spouse, who instantly dissolves into panicky concern. “Every part goes to be wonderful,” he reassures her. “We caught it early.”
Charlotte won’t be blissful about Harry’s information, however some consultants are happy with the event. “I’m ecstatic about this plotline, as a result of the notice and dialogue round prostate most cancers is commonly hidden,” says Dr. Phillip Koo, chief medical officer on the Prostate Most cancers Basis. “Males don’t like speaking about it—I feel we regularly put up that powerful shell on the surface, particularly when it includes the type of organs that males outline their masculinity primarily based on. I feel it’s great we’re elevating consciousness.”
Nonetheless, that doesn’t essentially imply the present’s depiction is correct. We requested consultants how real looking Harry’s expertise is—and what they need males to find out about prostate most cancers.
Inventive liberties
Harry went to the physician after experiencing two signs (performed for cringey laughs from viewers). Earlier within the season, he hits the golf equipment with Charlotte, who’s attempting to finagle an artwork sale for the gallery she manages. Because the group plots their transfer to an after-party, Harry makes a pit-stop on the rest room, the place he finds, a lot to his horror, that he can’t undo his fancy denims rapidly sufficient. “Oh boy, oh boy,” he mutters. “These buttons! Why so many?” And identical to that, Harry pees in his pants. “It’s a great factor these infants are so darkish,” he says to Charlotte when he meets up together with her once more. “You’ll be able to’t inform they’re soaked.”
Then, within the subsequent episode, Harry has hassle performing within the bed room with Charlotte. As he wonders in exasperation what’s—or, he clarifies, isn’t—”occurring down there,” he bemoans how out-of-character that is for him. “Is that this it? The start of the top?” he spirals. “Knock knock, who’s there? Previous age!”
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Reduce to the most recent episode, and Harry has been recognized with prostate most cancers primarily based on these signs. “There’s positively some inventive liberties the present has taken,” says Dr. Julia Willingham, a urologist who treats prostate most cancers sufferers at Texas Oncology. “It is sensible—it helps drive the plot ahead—however most early-stage prostate most cancers has no signs in any respect.” That’s why some folks name the illness—which can have an effect on greater than 313,000 males within the U.S. in 2025—a silent killer. It’s nearly at all times detected through a routine prostate-specific antigen (PSA) check, a screening blood check that almost all males endure each couple of years or so beginning round age 50 for these with common danger. (Precise screening frequency relies on an individual’s age and danger elements.)
When a person’s PSA degree is excessive, docs usually do a biopsy and, probably, exams like a CT scan or bone scan to verify the prognosis. “Typically males say, ‘Oh my gosh, I really feel nice,’” Willingham says. “‘There’s no method I can have prostate most cancers. I’ve no signs.’ After which they do.”
A extra seemingly path to prognosis
Earlier than the PSA check was accepted as a diagnostic instrument in 1994, males had been extra seemingly to determine one thing was mistaken as a result of they had been experiencing urinary retention, quite than Harry’s incontinence. That may imply issue beginning to pee, a weak stream, hassle absolutely emptying the bladder, or generally, an incapability to pee in any respect. “The prostate is in a really busy neighborhood,” says Dr. Mark Pomerantz, scientific director of the Lank Middle for Genitourinary Oncology at Dana-Farber Most cancers Institute. “It sits proper below the bladder and the urethra—and if there’s a big prostate tumor, in idea it may press towards that tube and trigger urinary retention.”
Different instances, males had been recognized as a result of their prostate most cancers unfold, resulting in signs that affected different components of the physique. “Prostate most cancers likes to go to bone,” Pomerantz says. “It was not unusual, previous to PSA testing, for folks to indicate up within the emergency room with horrible again ache.” There, they’d get an X-ray that finally led to a prognosis of metastatic prostate most cancers that had unfold to the bones of their again. “We do not see that almost as a lot anymore now that we’ve a check that may catch the most cancers early,” Pomerantz says. “When it does trigger signs, usually the illness is fairly far alongside.”
Which means, if Harry had been a real-life affected person, there’d be purpose to consider his illness was superior. “It may nonetheless be native”—which suggests it hasn’t but unfold past the prostate—“however it might take a tumor that is fairly far alongside to get to the purpose the place it might trigger these signs.”
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Total, Harry’s path to prognosis is “potential, however definitely not typical,” Pomerantz says. That stated, he understands why the present’s creators most likely selected to spotlight urinary incontinence and erectile dysfunction. “These unwanted effects are famously widespread penalties of prostate most cancers remedy, however are not often the signs that result in prognosis.”
Typically, docs suggest lively surveillance, or watchful ready. But when a person’s most cancers is aggressive, docs usually take the prostate out, and that is when unwanted effects enter the image. “The best way the surgical procedure works is the entire prostate has to return out, and if you take away the prostate, you need to take away the a part of the urethra that runs proper by means of the center of the prostate,” Pomerantz says. “The surgeon takes the remaining urethra that is nonetheless within the physique and drags it up and sews it into the underside of the bladder to make a brand new connection. That connection is usually a little fragile.” Urine might need a better time getting by means of, for instance, which may result in leakage. Plus, there are essential nerves that run alongside the prostate and are in command of the sphincter muscle, which closes the bladder and retains urine contained. “If these nerves get broken in surgical procedure, then you’ll be able to have the unwanted effects that had been depicted within the present,” he says.
A pure response
All through the episode, Charlotte—who promised Harry she wouldn’t inform their youngsters about his prognosis—struggles to comprise her feelings. Throughout a pre-planned glamping journey, she repeatedly snaps at her youngsters in regards to the significance of savoring each second collectively, and seems on the verge of an emotional breakdown. That’s a pure response, consultants say.
“Everybody at all times talks in regards to the C phrase,” Koo says. “I feel your thoughts robotically jumps to the worst situation, and the impression it’ll have in your life expectancy.” Many males fear about how they will proceed working—and the impression their illness could have on their household’s funds. “Somebody like Harry, who has younger youngsters, may surprise: ‘How am I going to assist them?’’’ he says. “It’s devastating,” regardless of how optimistic the prognosis.
A welcome highlight
Consultants hope Harry’s prognosis encourages extra males to get screened. “Males shouldn’t be afraid of prostate most cancers screening,” says Dr. Jamin Brahmbhatt, a urologist at Orlando Well being. “It’s a easy blood check, identical to you’re getting your ldl cholesterol checked.”
Prostate most cancers is likely one of the most typical diagnoses amongst males, he provides, and it’s additionally very treatable, particularly when caught early. Extra males die with the illness than of it. “It is not like a few of these different uncommon cancers,” he says. “The extra we get screened, the more healthy we are able to get folks.”
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Willingham has seen an growing variety of males are available in proactively for screening, and she or he believes data is energy. That’s why she applauds Harry’s new storyline. “If something, we must always take this as encouragement to get these annual checks in, to maintain ourselves, and to know what is going on on,” she says. “Most cancers apart, in case you’re having urinary or sexual signs, go discuss to your physician, as a result of these are issues that we are able to deal with and maintain—you do not have to endure with these signs.”
