I don’t suppose I’ve talked about skincare particularly on right here for years, since I used to be 34 to be precise. And 2018 seems like a number of lifetimes in the past doesn’t it?
Anyway, it’s now 2026 (!), I’m 42 years previous, and dwelling in a brand new city. My pores and skin is fairly first rate if I’m score myself. The professionals? I don’t actually have breakouts. My pores and skin feels tender. I don’t have numerous brown spots (in addition to my moles which I used to be blessed with many).
The areas I don’t love? My jowl strains getting extra pronounced (like if I gently raise my cheek my face will get 10 years youthful and I see the enchantment). The strains on my brow that don’t immediately fade after making an expression. The deeper crinkles round my eyes. To place it plainly: strains and wrinkles.
All of that is proof of a life properly lived with numerous pleasure? Completely! And I’m so grateful for it.
And a the identical time it’s bizarre once you begin wanting within the mirror and feeling just like the particular person you see wanting again doesn’t totally mirror the particular person you’re feeling to be on the within. I’ve zero opinion on what anybody else ought to do or not do as they age, however I’m blissful to share what I’ve tried and what I’ve thought of. So this submit is simply that- a convo together with your gal pal and I certain would love in the event you spilled the tea in your skincare secrets and techniques or favs!
Skincare Merchandise & Therapies in My 40’s
Skincare Merchandise
Let’s speak about merchandise, first. I’ve been hooked on Clearstem for years now, ever since I found it by way of Emily Morrow. My core (every day) merchandise are:
I’ve different merchandise that I dabble with, however for essentially the most half, that’s all I’m utilizing every day. I’ve tried a number of Vitamin C serums however have but to seek out one which I really feel makes any sort of distinction. If in case you have one you like, please share, as I’d like so as to add it to my morning line up.
I’ve been tempted by different merchandise, like eye cream and costly anti-aging serum, however I’ve determined to redirect these funds from merchandise to therapies.
Skincare Therapies & Lasers
After age 40 the extra I’ve been instructed that therapies are the place it’s at. I’ve been largely inconsistent with these regardless of my perception, however hoping to make them a extra common a part of my routine this 12 months.
- Microneedling – I’ve had this completed twice (the newest one completed yesterday) and really feel prefer it’s value the price for my pores and skin. Comparatively little downtime (a day of wanting barely sunburnt then some mild flaking/feeling a couple of days later) and slightly discomfort (they numb my pores and skin) for improved texture, a minimized look of pores, and lowered wonderful strains makes this one a winner for me.
- IPL/BBL – Not a Brazilian Butt Carry 😉 , however the laser that may assist goal brown spots and increase collagen manufacturing. I’ve had it completed on my entire face, however most not too long ago simply as a spot therapy for some busted capillaries on the bridge of my nostril. No downtime and nearly speedy outcomes for my nostril spot particularly.
- Facials – I’d like to alternate micro needling and customized facials each 6 weeks however nonetheless attempting to justify the price.




Microneedling earlier than (above) and instantly after (under).




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Injectables
Man, these sort of freak me out however once I see somebody wanting fab and recent, so many occasions they point out some sort of injectable.
- Neurotoxins (like Botox, Dysport, the one with the X) – I’ve had this on a number of totally different events and have actually just like the outcomes of smoother pores and skin and a softer expressions. I really feel prefer it simply makes me look extra properly rested. I’ve additionally determined a number of occasions to only keep all pure, which is the place I’m now. No “tox” at present in my face however I’ll be trustworthy, I’m debating it. I actually do love the brighter, more energizing look it provides me. Perhaps I’ll attempt Frownies.
- Filler – that is the one which scares me essentially the most and though I’d love my marionette strains to be a bit much less outlined, I don’t foresee me attempting this, at the least anytime quickly. I’ve realized to by no means say by no means however the thought of filler injected into after which staying or migrating round my face freaks me out.
- Sculptra – I don’t know a lot about this one. I assumed it was a filler however apprently it’s a collagen stimulator? I don’t know however I’ve heard extra folks speaking about it.
Microneedling Q&A
Since I simply obtained this completed yesterday, I requested IG for any questions on the therapy and likewise requested for anybody else’s FAV skincare merchandise and/or therapies. Right here they’re!
- Was this your first time? No, second! And I plan to do it once more in about 3 months.
- What do you utilize for moisturizer? I really like this Hydroglow.
- Every other therapies you’ve completed? I’ve completed Hydrafacials (love the expertise nevertheless it feels extra like a deep clear and for me it’s not well worth the excessive price ticket) and microdermabrasion (cherished the texture of this and no pain- like a deep exfoliation).
- Does microneedling damage? Not damage, nevertheless it creates some discomfort. They numb my face however across the fringe of my brow and the underneath eye nonetheless make me squirm slightly.
- Submitted Skincare FAVS! – microdermabrasion for coping with minor breakouts, collagen as a complement, vitamin C is liquid gold (why can’t I discover one I like?!), I do the Cool Peel laser with microneedling (oh… inform me extra!), I really like gua Sha with chia seed oil every day (I’d love to include extra lymphatic draining strategies however I all the time appear to be speeding by way of my routine to get to bed- ha)
Please share with me your fav skincare finds, whether or not or product or therapy. What’s made the largest distinction in your routine/look?




